Bring and share

Some groups of people organising a buffet meal for a number of people like to organise all the details in advance.  There are lists to sign with all the required items and people indicate what they intend to bring.  It works well and (as long as enough people are prepared to co-operate) takes some of the worry out of the arrangement for those in charge.

I remember my daughter (aged about 5 years) coming home from school with the following message.  “It’s our Christmas party on —day – I’ve put you down for tuna sandwiches.”

“Right!” I replied.  It was not her fault that I had no confidence in my ability to make sandwiches look attractive.  I knew I couldn’t get away with tuna on its own between bread and spread; I had no mayonnaise in stock.  Fortunately the village shop had some and the sandwiches were produced as promised.  Had she asked for sausages on sticks or some sort of nibbles I could have bought, my heart would not have sunk!

An alternative arrangement to the list (common among smaller groups of people) is known as, “Bring and share”.  This is a meal, where everyone brings something, but nothing is done to ensure that a balanced meal is provided.  I have been to several of these, particularly over the last few years.  My contributions have varied depending on the time of year, the type of occasion and what ingredients I have to hand.

There used to be a joke that everyone took quiche!

I can remember taking (on different occasions) hard boiled eggs, tomatoes, upside-down pudding, a bottle of wine, cheese scones, cheese.  The latest one I went to was the last meeting before Christmas of the ladies’ Bible study group.  I decided the day before, that cheese scones would be suitable and I could get up in time to bake them before the meeting.  The previous night I put out all the baking equipment in preparation.  There was far too much food for five ladies to eat for lunch (sometimes there have been ten of us).  However, the food on offer included fruit – grapes, fresh pineapple, kiwi fruit, satsuma segments (or similar) – meat, cheese, various sorts of cake including the Christmas speciality, known as mince pies as well as fruit juices.

Cheese scones

Cheese scones

It was an enjoyable meal with good company.  I was glad I had taken scones as there were no sandwiches or other bread products.  The only information I had regarding what others were likely to take was negative.  One lady, who sometimes bakes cheese scones, had a prior engagement.

Have you been to a bring and share lunch?  How did it turn out?


9 thoughts on “Bring and share

  1. I hate tuna, never know what to do with it Sue. Love scones and all those fruit delectables. It sounds like you’re you all had a lovely evening. In our church housegroup we sometimes take food, grapes, tangerines, little cakes, latte coffee. Really nice. When we do the bible study we sit around a beautiful old dining table and share the word of God and our food with each other.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Our choir often has get-togethers after a concert or at the end of the year. Everyone just brings whatever they want to bring. It is amazing the variety even amongst the quiches. 🙂 Lately savoury loafs, like a pound cake but not sweet, have been popular.


  3. Well if the ‘village shop’ is the one I think it is then I’m sure those sandwiches were great 😉 It sounds like that Bible study Bring and Share was immense! Did my wife attend that one? I usually get the low-down on such things but I don’t recall this one being mentioned…


Comments are closed.